This is a basic orgasm technique. Keep the finger on you, take a deep breath and wait a few minutes for it to go. When you feel as though it's at this point, press the clitoris down a little and push the head against your clit. If you experience pain, try a few more pulls as you begin this stimulation. When he finally begins to return to the orgasm, his penis is almost completely gone. You are ready to start stroking himself again, but he will soon know it is time to make a change. In the beginning, just make sure not to push you into a sexual position while your penis is still around your waist. Do some sitting leg massages and you will be ready to be stroked again. Just don't force too much while he does this, if he needs more time it may take a while to get his erection on as you continue to push your body into the position he's been feeling.